Expecting Beyond Expectations !!

Oops!! "Expectation". No one can escape from imagination. The world runs on expectation. A very complicated word so far for me which emerged along with my existence. Many lives were influenced by my entry in this wonderful world. Parents might had expected so many things relating to me. And I might had expected accordingly. Neither their none mine expectation met completely. And it continues. The only thing which differs is height and criteria of expectation. Some of them might go beyond imagination and other ends up desperately. This is a magical words. Expectation is never one way phenomena. Though expecting from own is different issue. It relates to at least two people, and is directly related to each of them. Here one party is liable to meet another's expectation  at one time whether or if he/she knows what actually other are  expecting from them. And side by side, there's another twist, Most often only the one who expects is affected by the outcome. Expectation ends up with two concrete result either you are delighted or disappointed. In between, you go through some limit of prediction ,satisfaction, hope, fear and failure. It often demoralizes human being. Sometimes I felt , expecting was begging your happiness from others.

Talking about me, I don't disclose my expectation openly with anyone. Or lets say, I don't make lists of demands in numerical orders, but still want them to be met. And after so many years of experience of expecting such way, I came to the conclusion that, this is a major cause of accidents on expectation. If you don't urge then how come  other help you in meeting your expectation? So, usually the consequence is disappointment. This is my fault if I didn't explained well about my requirements but still I want them to know about my expectation by themselves, through my gesture, my attitude and the scenario where I belong to. Quite stupid and complex to be meet. This is why my mind says that I am " Expectation Beyond Expectations". Point to be noted is, how can anyone go through your vision  and make things happen for you? This question sucks :(. But what I feel is if someone who is connected to your with heart and mind must know at least something about you. You are not expecting from the strangers, they are your own. Then why not, whats wrong with expecting from them, Its our right to. Since there is no hard and fast rule that your expectation must be met to cent percent. It depends on the limitation and criteria of your dreams. For example, if you are thirsty enough, then obviously it is visible and you can expect  to get some drops of water. This is not an extraordinary and confusing demand you are seeking for. Anyone can understand what are you striving for. Your people can feel it and bring you some water. Such expectations can be met without uttering a word.Still its complicated to explain. If I elaborate this thirst again. I am thirsty and tired enough that i cant demand, and my friend brings me a bottle of warm water...i might be disappointed since I were expecting a chilled cold icy water. There my expectation was segregated into 2 parts in one millisecond as soon as i felt the thirst i.e ; I need a water and it should be cold. Similarly it might be widened more broadly as well. Some super luxurious people might expect same thurst in different way such as, Chilled  icy water... in a glass.....or even with straw...... and wrapped with some napkins, so their hand wont get wet. Does it sounds crazy ?? I guess No. We don't notice this things practically. Well, it was just an simple example of expectation. Expectation is Vague. And Expecting Beyond Expectation relates to every possible dreams supposed to be met through mutual coordination with related personalities. 

Expecting your mom to be the first wisher in your birthday, expecting a lap of your grandparents to sleep, expecting new clothes on some auspicious occasion, expecting your boyfriend/girlfriend to bring you some flowers on special dates, expecting a warm hug of a best friend in your tough time, expecting a congratulation and celebration in your grand success, expecting your life partner to be the  first one to wish you "happy anniversary" surprisingly, Expecting chocolates/ gifts from a dad after he comes back from vacation, expecting a delicious meal at home after you return back tired from work 

....these are most common expectation accepted widely.These are emotional desires. No one asks for these things still silence speaks a lot. Don't we have right to expect following things? Many people get victim of Isolation, distrust, hypertension and get un socialized just because their expectation were not met, whether they were beyond or behind limitations. People lack right here. Why not we change our expectations rather than being demoralized. If one way is closed, then you are the one to search other. Still if you can not find the way, Create your own. Before expecting anything from the world, Always be in safe side with keeping alternative options as expectation. Not every expectation goes on vein. If you are struggling and giving your best to attain something, you will certainly achieve something even if its less than 50%. " Something is Better than Nothing". You are the creator and destroyer of your own life. Your nearest people can just get participated in you happiness and sorrows. They cannot heal the pain you go through. Expect less which can be attained. 

Every one have their big dreams. They are giving their best to create a better future. There is a competition to attain a life of  success and luxury. None of them have a same expectation even their criteria of work is similar. I expect something else and so does other. If you expect nothing from life, then your existence is worthless, And  if you expect high from life, it's obvious you will not attain all of them and again it hurts you. This is a joke of like. We are the clown in circus of our own life. In some cases, even Not expecting anything also gives you more happiness. If  without expecting you gain something, then its  more than awesome. But this is a random series of Luck. And miracle rarely happens in Practical Life. Expectations is a on going process. Trust is something which binds our expectation with other. Keep faith on what you need and be sure that those are attainable. Don't let your expectation to be named as myth. Everything is possible if you try. One more important tips :Make your expectation Realistic. Because expectation described earlier is depended on other people as well. If they are planned like tales of fairy, they are simply impossible to gained. Pleasure of life are  hidden secrets of expectation. Wake up, Run, fetch them, identify them, and make every possible attempts to grasp them. That's the Destiny. Real world is not as easy as of Fantasy. A cheers for our expectations !!!